Forget About Your Song

What song? You know the one that played when you first met; the one that was supposed to be your wedding song; the one that always make you think of one particular person… That song! Forget it!

Music is VERY important when it comes to forgetting your ex. I am telling you this because I always ruin all of my efforts with a single song. I am having a great time, I am meeting new people and life is good again. Then, out of nowhere, that song comes up on my playlist and breaks my heart all over again.

Home Is Good, Out Is Better

Hello ladies, are you feeling good these days? :)

I am doing really great, I feel motivated and I am able to think about various topics that are not connected to my ex. This makes me happy, proud and hopeful that you will feel the same soon enough. Even though I have been through this hell before and I know that I will survive it, I am still sometimes skeptical and anxious. Probably you have the same problem, but that is why we are having this blog.

However, I wouldn't philosophize any longer. The next lesson is called Home Is Good, Out Is Better. You can guess what all this is about, right? Imprisoning ourselves at home do us no good. You have to go out, have fun and live your life!

Think Less About Your Ex!

Hello again my dear readers with broken hearts. :)

Today’s lesson is very important one. I intentionally didn’t put it as first step towards obtaining happiness after you had a painful break up, because I wanted to give you some basic ways to get you thoughts away from the main problem.

After couple of days, or weeks, practicing to direct your mind into thinking about books or TV shows, you are probably getting used to thinking less about your ex. In my own experience, the first days after a break up are pathetic and painful, but what comes afterwards is the real torture. This particular torture is what we tend to do to ourselves and it is called stalking the hell out of your ex. 

Horoscope gives you hope!

Couple of days have passed after my last post. I hope you were reading some books and watching some shows to keep your mind busy. I know I did, and it felt great!

If you missed my first two steps, you can find the first one here and the second here.

Please don't be judgmental when I say that horoscope is good when it comes to surviving a painful break up. I am not saying that you should spend money paying for personalized charts or believe in everything you read in the daily horoscopes, but it is allowed to find some comfort in nice predictions.

Step nо. 2 - TV shows!

Well, I guess you all remember the first step of surviving a breakup.

You do? Great!

Now it's time for the second step, which is watching TV shows!

Of course, movies are great, movies are romantic and they take your thoughts away for couple of hours. Unfortunately, couple of hours are not enough for our brains and broken hearts to forget the pain any longer than that.

Reading helps!

 Hello again girls!

You all remember why we are here, right? We are sad, we have broken hearts and we want to be happy!

Well, after my first break up I really didn't know what to do in order to make those images and depressing thoughts go away. All I could do was just lying on the bed, staring at one point on the wall and thinking how I will never move on.

Of course, I survived!

Today I am telling you the first step of forgetting the memories that make you cry - READING books!

We all can survive and be happy!

We all know how we girls tend to get attached to someone and then that someone leaves us and we feel like killing ourselves, right?

Well girls, the good news is that we all can survive, be happy and live with a broken heart. We can be happy and have a broken heart!

This is my first post, so I am not going to tell you all of my secrets of how I managed to live and be happy with a broken heart, not once, but TWICE! Life is beautiful, life is magic and life is now! Of course, we can give us some crying time, some complaining time and even some angry time... but after our weak 15 minutes are gone we will fight and be happy! Maybe you are sad at this particular moment, maybe you don't feel like fighting, but I will help you with my personal experience and tricks to survive and find the strength to smile from your heart.

Believe me, there are so many great reasons for us to be happy and you should never lose hope that true love will find you in some weird and unexpected way!

However, now that we have met, I would like to point out my friend's blog because it's really great and helpful.

Have a nice night and day, I'll be back soon with some great advice for you. :)

Stay strong!